| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 05:07PM #1 | |
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simple question.....
is it possible for a dying relationship thats headed towards an end, to be brought back to life and thrive
and if so.....what can re-light the flame?
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 05:10PM #2 | |
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Not if its my relationship.
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 05:55PM #3 | |
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Yes it can but the problem is that people want to rekindle a flame with somebody from the past when they're already in a a current relationship. That's one way how it can be, people are weak to forget the past and let go. |
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 06:02PM #4 | |
I believe so.. I'm going thru that situation as we speak.. I think what can re-light it.. spending more time together..Talk about what attracted you 2 together in the first place.. Start going back out on dates and hell u dnt have 2 spend any money on these dates either.. walking around the park or just walking in the mall. if gas was lower i would say just drive around and get lost.. but that cant happen its cost like $5,000 to fill up..lol... Text them how their day is going.. Cuz it makes the other person know that they were on ur mind..
I know that I love you, but let me just say
I don't wanna love you in no kind of way I don't want a broken heart I don't wanna play the broken-hearted girl You're the only one I wish I could forget The only one I love to not forgive And even now, while I hate you, it pains me to say I know I'll be there at the end of the day |
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 06:03PM #5 | |
does any of that really rekindle the flame? Or makes the flame as hot as it was when you two first met?
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 06:03PM #6 | |
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It depends on the person and the way they broke up. |
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 06:04PM #7 | |
I never said the couple in question broke up.....
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 06:05PM #8 | |
Hopefully it will do both..lol.. But it also depends do you think its worth it 2 rekindle it.. b/c if you dnt then whats the point of doing those things..
I know that I love you, but let me just say
I don't wanna love you in no kind of way I don't want a broken heart I don't wanna play the broken-hearted girl You're the only one I wish I could forget The only one I love to not forgive And even now, while I hate you, it pains me to say I know I'll be there at the end of the day |
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 06:07PM #9 | |
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I've actually heard that in certain situations, its good for a relationship to let somebody outside the relationship light the flame
i.e threesome
or each agreeing to go on a date and have sex with a different partner, and then returning to the relationship
a new experience could lift the dead weight and boredom of a longterm relationship.........but then again i havent heard of any black people doing that so idk lol
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| 2 months ago :: Oct 15, 2008 - 06:12PM #10 | |
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Three..wat???.. Oh no no no.. my cousin tried that shit.. now she's alone.. and the dude is with the the person who was supposed 2 help rekindle the flame.. So i wouldnt advise you 2 do that..
I know that I love you, but let me just say
I don't wanna love you in no kind of way I don't want a broken heart I don't wanna play the broken-hearted girl You're the only one I wish I could forget The only one I love to not forgive And even now, while I hate you, it pains me to say I know I'll be there at the end of the day |
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