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Is it possible to rekindle a flame?
2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 05:07PM #1
-rewind
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simple question.....


 


is it possible for a dying relationship thats headed towards an end, to be brought back to life and thrive


 


and if so.....what can re-light the flame?

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2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 05:10PM #2
FortuneCookieIntellect
Posts: 12833

Not if its my relationship.


 


This thread is horrible (pity post)....

2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 05:55PM #3
S_A_M_R_I_O
Posts: 1798

Yes it can but the problem is that people want to rekindle a flame with somebody from the past when they're already in a a current relationship.  That's one way how it can be, people are weak to forget the past and let go.

2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 06:02PM #4
LadieeA
Posts: 457

Oct 15, 2008 - 04:07PM, -rewind wrote:


simple question.....


 


is it possible for a dying relationship thats headed towards an end, to be brought back to life and thrive


 


and if so.....what can re-light the flame?




I believe so.. I'm going thru that situation as we speak.. I think what can re-light it.. spending more time together..Talk about what attracted you 2 together in the first place.. Start going back out on dates and hell u dnt have 2 spend any money on these dates either.. walking around the park or just walking in the mall. if gas was lower i would say just drive around and get lost.. but that cant happen its cost like $5,000 to fill up..lol... Text them how their day is going.. Cuz it makes the other person know that they were on ur mind..

I know that I love you, but let me just say
I don't wanna love you in no kind of way
I don't want a broken heart
I don't wanna play the broken-hearted girl
You're the only one I wish I could forget
The only one I love to not forgive
And even now, while I hate you, it pains me to say
I know I'll be there at the end of the day
2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 06:03PM #5
-rewind
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Oct 15, 2008 - 05:02PM, LadieeA wrote:


Oct 15, 2008 - 04:07PM, -rewind wrote:


simple question.....


 


is it possible for a dying relationship thats headed towards an end, to be brought back to life and thrive


 


and if so.....what can re-light the flame?




I believe so.. I'm going thru that situation as we speak.. I think what can re-light it.. spending more time together..Talk about what attracted you 2 together in the first place.. Start going back out on dates and hell u dnt have 2 spend any money on these dates either.. walking around the park or just walking in the mall. if gas was lower i would say just drive around and get lost.. but that cant happen its cost like $5,000 to fill up..lol... Text them how their day is going.. Cuz it makes the other person know that they were on ur mind..




 


does any of that really rekindle the flame? Or makes the flame as hot as it was when you two first met?

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2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 06:03PM #6
Beztmilkshake4u
Posts: 4915

It depends on the person and the way they broke up.

2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 06:04PM #7
-rewind
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Oct 15, 2008 - 05:03PM, Beztmilkshake4u wrote:


It depends on the person and the way they broke up.




 


I never said the couple in question broke up.....

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2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 06:05PM #8
LadieeA
Posts: 457

Oct 15, 2008 - 05:03PM, -rewind wrote:


Oct 15, 2008 - 05:02PM, LadieeA wrote:


Oct 15, 2008 - 04:07PM, -rewind wrote:


simple question.....


 


is it possible for a dying relationship thats headed towards an end, to be brought back to life and thrive


 


and if so.....what can re-light the flame?




I believe so.. I'm going thru that situation as we speak.. I think what can re-light it.. spending more time together..Talk about what attracted you 2 together in the first place.. Start going back out on dates and hell u dnt have 2 spend any money on these dates either.. walking around the park or just walking in the mall. if gas was lower i would say just drive around and get lost.. but that cant happen its cost like $5,000 to fill up..lol... Text them how their day is going.. Cuz it makes the other person know that they were on ur mind..




 


does any of that really rekindle the flame? Or makes the flame as hot as it was when you two first met?




Hopefully it will do both..lol.. But it also depends do you think its worth it 2 rekindle it.. b/c if you dnt then whats the point of doing those things..

I know that I love you, but let me just say
I don't wanna love you in no kind of way
I don't want a broken heart
I don't wanna play the broken-hearted girl
You're the only one I wish I could forget
The only one I love to not forgive
And even now, while I hate you, it pains me to say
I know I'll be there at the end of the day
2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 06:07PM #9
-rewind
Posts: 7751

I've actually heard that in certain situations, its good for a relationship to let somebody outside the relationship light the flame


 


i.e threesome


 


or each agreeing to go on a date and have sex with a different partner, and then returning to the relationship


 


a new experience could lift the dead weight and boredom of a longterm relationship.........but then again i havent heard of any black people doing that so idk lol

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2 months ago  ::  Oct 15, 2008 - 06:12PM #10
LadieeA
Posts: 457

Three..wat???.. Oh no no no.. my cousin tried that shit..  now she's alone.. and the dude is with the the person who was supposed 2 help rekindle the flame.. So i wouldnt advise you 2 do that..

I know that I love you, but let me just say
I don't wanna love you in no kind of way
I don't want a broken heart
I don't wanna play the broken-hearted girl
You're the only one I wish I could forget
The only one I love to not forgive
And even now, while I hate you, it pains me to say
I know I'll be there at the end of the day
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