Conscious, consistently employed and virtuous Black men have a real dilemma when it comes to choosing a mate.
You see, america's white supremacist social order has almost completely conditioned black women to dislike Black men. The converse is true as well, as more and more Black men date outside of their ethnic group; we too have been taught to despise black women.
Problem is, some Black men have sought out the company of fat white women as an antidote to dealing with the bad attitudes of some black women.
The other problem is, Black men have been conditioned to believe white women, universally, are going to treat them better than any black woman ever will.
But nothing could be farther from the truth...ESPECIALLY regarding fat white women.
So in case no one's given you a heads up Black man; let me give you the skinny on 3 reasons why dating one of these milk colored monsters could have you wishing you'd stayed loyal to your own kind.
Reason#3: Not only are fat white women overweight, they're also oversexed.
Let's keep it real for a sec'.
Black men...and american men period, have been taught that the white woman is every man's ultimate treasure. We've been taught since birth that this woman is THE standard of beauty ALL women are to be measured by.
Problem is, fat white woman are pariahs to the 'classic' european culture's notion of what is beautiful. And these women know this.
And even though they won't relate this to Black men, or pretty much of anyone else, they know their own men want nothing to do with them. So they carry around a deep sense of shame and a low esteem that causes them to be a bit quicker to jump between the sheets with men who want to be intimate with them.
I want to add, there are always exceptions to this rule, but they're few and far between.
Not only this, but they know that asian and spanish men will feel the same way about them because these men have a 'non-white' complex. So they're gonna' go out of their way to show europeans that they can be more 'european' than them.
And this makes fat white women even MORE desperate to be loved, or at least shown some affection by a member of the opposite sex.
And the easiest man they feel they can get...is a Black one.
Reason#2: When it comes to Black men, fat white women are just as bitter, abrasive, contentious and condescending as those black women you're trying to avoid...if not more so.
Like I mentioned previously, fat white women have a complex about how much they don't measure up to their own man's standard of beauty. So when they date a Black man, they're going to let him know in every way that they're just settling for being with you.
When you're really the one settling for being with them.
They feel that Black men's standards are so low, that if they're with one, they must be at a lowly place in america's social order themselves. And when any woman feels marginalized by dating you, in some way, subtle or not, she's gonna' let you know it.
They figure we should be grateful to be in the company of ANY white woman as they consume copious amounts of cake and ice cream. And whilst their wheezing to catch their breath after that second bacon cheeseburger, they're gonna' make you feel like less of a man 'cause you put up with their thunder thighs and cantankerous attitude.
They are NOT going to show you, a Black man, the sweeter sides of themselves. They're gonna' throw you plenty of sass and lob mean-spirited jokes at you whenever they get the chance. ESPECIALLY if you show them you really care.
Reason#1: And THE number one reason why Black men shouldn't date fat white women is: she won't tell you this...but secretly, she hates you; because you remind her everyday that she can't be with her most valued prize...the WHITE MAN.
I've heard fat white women say that spanish and white men won't kiss them or hold their hands, but Black men will. And even though this should make Black men more endeared to fat white women, it doesn't.
Actually, it makes them HATE YOU MORE.
A woman's ultimate want is SECURITY; and in every woman's mind, nothing is more secure than a white man. And white women feel it's their birthright to have one.
So when fat white women find themselves locked out of that ideal, it drives them a bit crazy. And it drives them to be madder at you. Because in the eyes of every woman, whether they admit it or not, Black men offer them NO security. Not unless you've got a million dollars.
I've seen YouTube videos of fat white women who date Black men exclusively, and they talk about Black men like they're dogs. I remember one young fat white woman was telling YouTubers how Black men mooch off her friends and how they're completely unscrupulous...AND SHE WAS DATING ONE!
Fortunately, a good brotha told her the reason she dates Black men is because she's fat; he also told her if she'd lose weight then the white dating pool will open up to her. Right after, the good brotha explained how he wasn't interested in dating white women whether they were fat or skinny. Righteous.
So if you're a Black man who's peeved at black women for their attitudes, and you're thinking about going 'over the hill' and outside your ethnic group, understand that in the case of fat white women...THE GRASS AIN'T GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE!
And the next time you see one of these corn-fed looking types and are interested in talking to them, or if one strikes up a conversation and starts flirting with you, remember, you may wind up receiving some fast sex, but if you endeavor to be in a relationship with one of these women, the only one getting screwed will be YOU!
Again, the moral of this story is: if you're not gonna' put up with a black woman's attitude, don't put up with a fat white woman's attitude either.
Black men, stop selling yourselves short. You deserve better than to date and mate with one of these triple-sized tramps.