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unRealLady1
since day one. I spent time proving myself to people things I already know, so therefore I learned nothing, but taught people everything I know..
I want others to really think about what I'm typing, if you think going thru drama makes u real, or having haters make u who u are, please stop giving these people glorification. Haters are just trying to learn and they are too "prideful" to say they don't know, or don't u, so they learn thru war.. This war do not benefit you it benefit them!
Another thing that need to be exposed, that I never really share with people who are not my friends. & the reason why, Is because if I don't really love you and you don't have love for me, I don't think your worthy of knowing my pain and suffering.
This is why I constantly defend myself saying I was not born at the top, because my haters fail to realize I come from the bottom, so they think I deserve abuse, because they think I never been thru nothing, and they want to hear my stories of affliction, or see my suffer to be satisfied within themselves..
I don't not like to give them pleasure, but at this point I will. I wasnt called beautiful my whole life, matter of fact as a child I was teased as well, and people thought I looked akward and thought I was too skinny and said I looked like a ethiopian and a somolian, they put me down in a bad way, but as I got older, females started to envy my looks. So therefore I find them to be petty imature, because they assume I'm a concieted without knowing who Iam..
I find people who tease to be elementary, because thats when everyone went thru teasing and being put down. As grown adults you show your elementary immaturity by using methods of teasing and downgrading a person being and calling it a fight. none of us went thru this life without a scar, and if you think someone is perfect you havent grown up. & you haven't grown up if you think it's people living that never been thru nothing.
I find it petty that I have to break down science to grown folks so their minds can rest at night... because all that go thru thier head is "I think I'm better" (real lady) I think I look better than them... so I have to share stories to my enemies about my hardships and pains when they suppose to be GROWN ADULTS.. they suppose to know that I had hardships and pains, what drives them crazy, is they think I'm from a bourgie life, think I'm from the county, they think I was born with everything. DAMN! I hope now they know the TRUTH! They had/have nothing to be jealous of they are just DUMB! & immature, and do not realize that everyone suffer!
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why do people assume that when people get depressed, it's because
they were molested, rape, abused, or think they are ugly.....
this is why people who are not therapist should stay away from people when they get depressed, because their judgments makes a depressed person suicidal.
Depression, can extend from being overworked.. Not enough sunshine, and free time for yourself. A over serious life, can lead a person into depression. Being around negative thinkers, who bring your thought process down, and make you see the negativity out life instead of the positive. All of these factors play part in depression.
Then u got the people who don't know when to stop "playing".. a person is depressed and not feeling well, and you got those people who can't stop CRACKING THEIR OFFENSIVE JOKES.. you know the ones that do not realize they need to stop playing.
When a person is depressed and you do not understand them.. GET AWAY FROM THEM, don't try your methods to bring them out of depression. Depression is something only the person can help themselves overcome.. Other people are the reason people go in depression, so depressed people do not need MORE attention, they need LESS..
I had to go to group therapy to figure out I why I was depressed, come to find out they diagnose me as being effected by negative people, and negative thinkers. They advised me to change my company of people. & that was a good prescription.. I feel wonderful now.
some of those people wanna make a comeback in my life NO CAN DO! THEY ARE CUT 4 LIFE..
Now some people I pushed away in depression got upset, but they were not the reason I was depressed, I just felt like I was making other people depressed. I could not figure out exactly why I was depressed. It wasnt 1 incident.. it was a overload feeling of sadness for no apparent reason.
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You failed as a parent if.........
people got these weak definitions of failure, because they grew up thinking everyone had the silver spoon but lil ol them. Most of these people always had a advantage but they couldnt see it, because they are nosey people who pay attentions to others more than themselves. So they may could not see that they really had the "better lives".... These type of people get successful, and do not realize others are successful, because they fail to believe where others are coming from in life. So because some people don't make accomplishments as big as theirs they consider the person a "failure"
where I come from I am successful. especially since I come from a drug infested family not just community. My mother was one of the only ones that wasnt on the pipe in my fam.. My grandmother had a alch problem. & had family members that litterly slept in the streets by garbage cans.
So I consider myself a successful parent and a success story from where I'm from. I do not compare myself with people who had other advantages and opportunities. If I had those opportunities I would be where they are at. Some people are just RICH AND DUMB, they never could see people had it worse than them.
I took advantage of my opportunities just like they did. I just went a different way. I don't consider fame the only type of success in this world. There are different roads of success.
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Feminists = Ugly, unattractive women
The separation of the truth and lie will come most feminist are sexy
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how do you tell a chick your not the reason she has h.i.v or aids or herpes?
This b e e f is not need my bad -
could u respect a man as REAL if he
I mean my mom dukes struggled hard.. She didnt finish high school.. matter fact she went to douglas high.. but she had morals.. her grandmother raised her hood rich.. but her grandmother died around the time I was born, so my mother was struggling.. and her father was going thru hell.. Yeah they had Dboy money in the 60's 70's, but by the 80's that shit was the blues.. our whole family was struggling again. So I was born in the struggle.. My mother worked at the lake trout spot and the corner stores, while getting a welfare check..then she got her G.E.D and landed a better job.. She was married twice, and her and her first husband had a business for a couple of years, but my step father started using dope again & lost everything... then my mother was taking care of me by herself then later when I got grown she married again and her 2nd husband died from lung cancer..
I don't have the best family either... but one thing me and my mother do is stick together if one come up the other come up. I'm not going to leave my mother stuck, because I know she did the best she can.. I'm not a selfish person that is resentful because I didnt have anything, and blame it on my mother, get money and leave her in the gutta.. I mean we all was in the struggle together... thats a soar way to treat your fam son!
