they were molested, rape, abused, or think they are ugly.....
this is why people who are not therapist should stay away from people when they get depressed, because their judgments makes a depressed person suicidal.
Depression, can extend from being overworked.. Not enough sunshine, and free time for yourself. A over serious life, can lead a person into depression. Being around negative thinkers, who bring your thought process down, and make you see the negativity out life instead of the positive. All of these factors play part in depression.
Then u got the people who don't know when to stop "playing".. a person is depressed and not feeling well, and you got those people who can't stop CRACKING THEIR OFFENSIVE JOKES.. you know the ones that do not realize they need to stop playing.
When a person is depressed and you do not understand them.. GET AWAY FROM THEM, don't try your methods to bring them out of depression. Depression is something only the person can help themselves overcome.. Other people are the reason people go in depression, so depressed people do not need MORE attention, they need LESS..
I had to go to group therapy to figure out I why I was depressed, come to find out they diagnose me as being effected by negative people, and negative thinkers. They advised me to change my company of people. & that was a good prescription.. I feel wonderful now.
some of those people wanna make a comeback in my life NO CAN DO! THEY ARE CUT 4 LIFE..
Now some people I pushed away in depression got upset, but they were not the reason I was depressed, I just felt like I was making other people depressed. I could not figure out exactly why I was depressed. It wasnt 1 incident.. it was a overload feeling of sadness for no apparent reason.