The girl I was with at the time once hit me while we were arguing, she was mad about me being insensitive about something that was really actually petty. She slapped me and I had her against the wall with my hand around her neck and I wanted to hit her, I wanted to! I let her go and just told her that our relationship is over. She called me a few times until I blocked her. I do not condone any actions against women that will send you to jail, but after you show kindness she thinks you're weak.