This was 6 years ago. And to clarify, i am married to a different, better woman, and have 2 kids, so i have a happy ending.
Unlike this hoe.
When i was playin college football back in the day in El Paso, Texas, i met and fell for a broad at my university.
We decided to wait until we were both college grads or i was in the league to get married .
Long story short, a nigga did not make it to the league, but got that degree, and she graduated the year after me.
We began the process of settling down and getting in job/career mode. We lived together an all that.
The only thing that bothered a nigga was that she was needy/selfish type. When i met her, she had a man, but
he was semi-long distance, and she cancelled him for me. (First warning)
She always hinted she could not handle a long distance thing.
She got to play the football star's girlfriend role all those years, and shit was all gravy.
Now, its real world time, and i found out that in El Paso, you cant get a good paying job
withought being able to speak fluent spanish, which i could not, tho she could, having grown up there.
We dicide that in order for me to find a career, i'd have to move back to Florida where i am from to find out
good career opportunities. Her job, could transfer all over the country. The only job i could seem to get was being
a teacher. I did that for one year in EP and hated it.
I moved back here to Jacksonville, Florida, with the whole point being to secure a job so we can get marreid and start
our life together. Once i got one, she'd move down and live happily ever after. I moved here in late September/ October. It took me until
Febrary to find a good job,.
Once i got this job, we began prep for her to move here, and she was here by the end of april. Her parents helped her move, and her dad
and bro came cross country with her with the Uhual and everything. From May-August, shit was all good, but i had this feeling that shit
was off. I actually had in the back of my mind that she coulda done something while i was out here on the grind, but i ignored it and put it
in the back of my head. Actually, i did not sleep with here once she got here until she had her period, cuz my biggest fear in life was that
Maury Povich shit, real talk.
Anyway, one of her stupid new habits was listening to this wack ass interent radio show based in EP that played all this wack ass southwestern
shit like Baby Bash and all that bullshit, but she would listen every sunday night.
Anyway, one sunday night in late August, she tells me that she is leaving me.
To tell you where my mind was at, i thought she was bothered that i had gained a lil weight,
only to get hit with that atom bomb.
Turns out, she had started messing with her Ex while i was here getting a job. Her whole family knew about it.
That shit came from left field. We had been together nearly 6 years, and i TOTALLY trusted her in every way.
I was on that nice guy steez that hoes dont respect, when it comes down to it.
He was playin the pimp role, dedicating songs to her over the radio and shit, keepin her mind occupied.
He was an ex con, jobless drug dealin type. The "i have no future so i cling onto hoes type". No hate on him,
that just who he was, and she was the dumb ass broad who falls for that.
Anyway, for the first time in the 3 years we were living together, i checked my own mail the next day.
She had opened up a joint bank account and was sending him money, since i paid the rent nad most of the bills,
leaving her entire check almost for her. Thats how i always did in relationships. In essence, she was sending my
money to him. (like the Red Lobster shit).
She told me that she was leaving that friday, and that she was getting a Uhaul and her "cousin" was coming to get
her on friday. So she started packing up her shit in my apartment. I broke the lease and prepared to move to my parents
crib, i obviously was not going to live there. Because we broke lease, i had to pay $1000. She spent all her dough on the uhaul.
I was all broken up about it. I figured out htat the "cousin" was him, and he was in town. Me any my nigga went to about
10-15 hotels that week lookin for this nigga, lol. It was going to go down. Anyway, Friday morning came, and the Uhaul
was loaded (i helped)(smh) and she drove off. Presumably to to meet up with him and drove the 2000 miles back to EPT.
I called her dad and told her about her leaving, and it was obvious that he knew, and that he knew who was picking her up.
That was the worse part. By the way, i looked thru her phone and saw the texts that she had been sending for months,
there was no going back.
As ETHERIAL as that was, the story of what happened to her since is worse than what happended to me.
Karma is a bitch. And, never again will i ever give my whole heart to one of these scandalous ass selfish ass bitches.
And i am marreid lol. I fucked up.
Never give a woman everything she wants/asks for. Because bitches dont know what they want.
When they get it, and are not happy, they think that you fell short, not that they dont know what they want.
This woman has admitted this to me. Also, on top of everything else, she admitted that she stopped taking her pills
when she moved here, to try to get pregnant. SMH.