No its not.
The ex I refer to is the only other man that I've loved. He hit me up on FB talking about how him and his bitch broke up, then tried to get the new number. I told him he wasn't about to fuck my shit up. He tries to keep it friendly but I'm just bitter towards him. It's almost an insult that he doesn't seem to grasp how he hurt me and why I feel bitter..that just confirms that it was never that serious to him.