I know Kat, you caught feelings because this may apply to you.

"Don't have any kids". This comes from people who should've taken that advice. They were the ones stupid for pickin' the wrong partner in the first place, more than likely raising them on their own.

Now to my main point, a child being planned or a mistake doesn't matter. So if your child was "planned" by you and your babydaddy but he isn't helping raising it, that's actually a "mistake" isn't it? Yes I know that was harsh. If a couple had a child by mistake/accident but they're raising it together so what's the issue? A "planned" child can have it worse than a "mistake" child so really there's no different. A child is a child born, that's it.

haute wrote: »

Lol @ a baby meaning you've conquered someone one, that says a lot about what you and the woman you get have to offer or lack thereof



Men sell themselves way too short

Lol. Ya'll focused on the conquer word too much. To be simple, I want to be the first she has a child with. The rest is the explanation why. Ya'll bringing up body count and shit which doesn't matter.

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Gnawledgeable wrote: »

caddo man wrote: »

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

Ok people let me clarify. We all have dirt on people know (because they tell it). So when they show off, trying to put you down or act up, that's when we use the dirt on them. Is that better? I don't hurt anyone on purpose.

Also you shouldn't be putting all your business out there anyway.

I cosign the underline. And if it is a serious situation that they are trying to embarrass me on. I dont hit them with the below the belt. I throw the jabs to them off me, but I let them know the left hay maker is being round up.

Nah I go for the kill which people are scared to do. Plus this is something we've all done. You bring up a person's worst when there's an argument.

You must've been raised by your mom.

Yes I was raised by my mom..... and father together unlike most of you on here.

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

For me, I don't want a wife that a nigga done nutted up in and created a child he don't want.

Wtf does that have to do with anything going on in this thread?

Use your head, people just don't like step children because they're not their own. Which deals with the jealousy of the thread topic. Therefore as you should know, a lot of IC dudes prefer females without children.

But this thread is about people that KNEW about said children and CHOSE to continue into a relationship anyway.

If the s/o's shared your viewpoint they shouldn't have even gotten that far..therefore your post isn't applicable to this particular topic.

Who checked this as ether? I don't see it but anyway they chose to continue it but now they're starting to see the light. You can be cool with something at the beginning but then realize that it's not what you can handle.