No shit that when you meet a female that she's done been with plenty of guys and done who knows what. Now her having a child is actual proof that she loved or been involved. So as for my preference , I wouldn't want to wife a single mother because I will feel second place to a lame. To me that's like sloppy seconds. Think about it, some man already laid claim to your wife before you did. Smh.
Once again, no shit that a guy could've busted nuts up in her while she was on birth control, that's different because no child was born. So with a woman I'll be with for the rest of my life, I'm go be the only one bustin' nuts, making kids with her.