Of course it's not good, but humans will still be humans and as long as we have unrealistic social standards, men and women alike will deceive in order to get what they want without persecution.
I ain't talkin about them I'm talkin about you, why would you personally want to deceive someone, most of the world is broke and unaware why would you want to be like most of the world??
I'm a human like any other...I don't WANT to deceive, but sometimes you gotta play the game.
Personally, I feel like I try to make choices to help minimize the need to deceive, like picking a partner that is on the same wavelength. Obviously I wouldn't choose a super conservative type of guy cause I'd be deceiving all over the place.