Do you encourage them, ridicule them, or drop them. I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 years now. And I've been seeing her gradually let her appearance go. She no longer even attempts to make herself even look remotely attractive to me. Her hair is never done. And even though I prefer it natural, she doesn't do anything with it. She's continually eating unhealthy shit like cookies and pop. I try to eat healthy around her, thinking it will have an effect but it never does.
She doesn't like to workout at the gym and when we do go she'll hardly workout.
She spend most of her time napping. She only works two days out the week (midnights) but is constantly tired. She exhibits absolutely no enthusiasm when it comes to self improvement.
She gets angry because I almost never initiate sex. But her overall energy and appearance is becoming a huge turnoff.
I often find that her energy (or lack there of) influences me in a negative way also.
The thing is, is that I'm really in a serious relationship with her. But her attitude is slowly putting me off. Have you fellas ever dealt with a women like this? What did you end up doing?