jono wrote: »

It seems some men have taken that victimization label women always use and placed it on themselves. Women sometimes connect with each other through the concept of victimization and other shared experiences. Tyler Perry movies, The Color Purple, Waiting To Exhale etc but it seems like men have decided to start going that route...and I aint with it. There's a lot of emotion involved with that kind of stuff. Sharing intimate vulnerabilities, crying, repression of self-responsibility...just ugh...too much for ya boy to handle.


I respect the plight of our sisters, and I share in most of the struggles the rest of the brothers do, but I'll be damned if I join a pity party for niggas who continue to do the same shit they complain that women do, and vice versa, I got no time for a bitch complaining if she not gonna change the way she does things.


Its a waste of energy.