It's a choice...it's not always about their pussy being broken,selfish, or anything. It could be them not wanting to be a single mother seeing what some single mothers around them go thru. It could be that they want the whole thing: the husband,the house , the good job, the security. No, all that is not promised to stay that way but it's good to have. Or they are just not ready.
It's needed when...a noticeable change like...a new and drastic hair style or cut. When she does look extraordinary...new banging dress...something. But everyday all the time...naw that's just someone fishing for a booster. Tell me when you are sincere about it not just because u think I expected... My man will let me know when I do look up to par... Then I know opps I need to step my game up. Cuz if he does it all the time...what is there to expect when I look DAMN good!!