I'm not absolving no one of their responsibilities, but men continue to do it so they are equally responsible as well. There can't hoes if there is no men willing to have sex with them and most men like to go with hoes and let's not act like most are marrying the good girls cause they'll leave them high and dry ask @empress_
So a woman should base her actions on how well the opposite sex receives her way of life? One should live according to how they will be perceived by others?
This is condoning and encouraging sheepism. How can one even begin to know a woman for who she really is if she is merely acting in accordance to what others find acceptable? And by this logic, a woman's entire truth is a front as she is not doing what she truly feels to, she's just a follower. I mean, how could one possibly really know someone who allows men to dictate how she should and should not act? How is this staying true to self?
Even when getting to know someone when courting, one should never tell another how to act or what they find acceptable as we're basically spoon feeding all the right answers to the other which many use as a means to "impress" the other. Allow them to do as they wish, their true selves will shine through and at the end of the day that's exactly what you want to happen.
Women have minds of their own and should be held responsible for their actions just the same as any other individual.
Yet, most people are conditioned to follow a culture and share a thought process that doesn't question society or the cultural ways. I'm not even condoning sheepism, I just know how people are and how they regulate through actions, thought = action. Feelings is a cognitive function that makes quick decisions based on the emotion the person attached to item, ideology, person, and etc. So society is based on feeling and little to do with logic that's why double standards exist.
Logic says that if both people are considered equal they must adhere to the same punishment, but according to feelings it doesn't have to be that way, women are equal but separate. You see what I'm saying?
So what you are saying is....
We live in a patriarchy ...males have and continue to dominate positions of power within our soceity
Most if not all double standards concerning men and women are rooted in our patriarchal culture via religion and seek to subjagate women by painting us as being overly emotional, weak, and illogical...
Whether one would like to admit it or not we have all been conditioned to have certain beliefs and not to challenge these beliefs. Just think no one comes out of the womb believing this bullshit