I just watched this video. Laughed my ass off. But what i noticed is how receptive alot of women have been/are on this video or similar kind of videos saying stuff like "Awww, cool couple. I would love to be in a relationship like that", "Aww, he's funny & charismatic", "Couples forget to have fun like this nowadays"..




However, this is not the man those same women saying those things would pick. Also, that's TV. You're only a minute of their or anyone else (ie. Obama couple, Jay-Z & Beyonce etc.) and think y'all got it figured. All you doing is being superficial, judging what you see on the surface. This guy would've been a "lame" to alot of women out there. If not that just friendzone'd the fuck out. Yet when he recieves a status of sorts (money, fame, percieved acceptance by others in your eyes etc.) then y'all want the guy or the same relationship chemistry he brings.

Is is cuz y'all think a PERCIEVED (by y'all!) SOCIAL status/acceptance is another form of potential protection?

Now, my point is..


These is the man black women (being specific in this case women all over do the same!) usually pick..

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Now the odds of any of these gentlemen being what some of you birds want in a relationship are slim, yet they always have females attention. Of course you can be a fun guy even with all of this but the odds are extremelly slim.


My final point and question is, where's the accountability?

It's almost as if you want one thing, keep going for something else just so you can complain about it like your mother, grandmother and friends do. Some of you never dig through the cracks and the surface it's almost always about the perception of what you THINK a dude is around his friends and if it LOOKS believable you'll believe it. What about his actions? What about his skills as a husband/father? What if he ain't the tough guy you PERCIEVE him to be, and can't give you the protection you're lookin for? What if he still lives an old mentality that doesn't fit yours? Etc.

Yes, men do it too. But men don't request MARRIAGE and KIDS only to go out to the strip clubs to find their mate there. Men usually want sex so therefor they go for it where it's at (ie. most clubs etc.).

Yet men still always gets blame as the reason why alot of relationships doesn't work. My thing is what is it about alot of you women out there that don't see or notice what you do yourselves? It's a very common trait with y'all. Is it cuz women usually gets pampered with & get over-protected by family members compared to the boys? What is it.

Let's pay tribute to the legends in the game. This is hip-hop & U.O.E.N.O.. The gawd gave us many hand babies yo.

memphis10 wrote: »

four9erbosspimp wrote: »

memphis10 wrote: »

If hip hop is in such bad shape, I don't understand how I can go on datpiff or live mixtapes and find at least 10 diff rappers who don't sound alike a month. And the shit be dope.

face gotta realize his era not comin back. its not 94 anymore, and it never will be again. 10 years from now the beats, delivery, rhyme structure, and all that will be different from this era. and some nigga who sold alot of records in this era who is repsected amongst his peers and almost 50 years old will be whinin about the same shit.

yea ppl might say a bar or two from an old as track. but it ain't like niggas jackin somebody whole verse n respittin it. He ok wit ppl bitin dre or marley marl, just not shawty redd? foh times have changed and so has the way ppl express themselves in hip hop. I support young niggas in this rap shit. like real shit, its not hard to find dope new original music at least once a week in hip hop today. but if you are still dependin on radio, tv, or some co-sign from another rap nigga it's on you.

the nigga face is just anotha bitter old ass rapper mad that he can't produce music that's relevant without going outside his comfort zone. This nigga need to lock his self in the studio and make some good music instead of hating on the young niggas like a straight bitch that he's acting like. I don't give a fuck about how legendary he is...that passive aggressive hating shit aint cool at all, makes him look like a hoe fo real

thats damn near how it come across aint it man...niggas like him would have you thinkin the music that's out now is just 99% wack. for the first time ever, us the listeners are in complete control of what is hot or not. we dont need commercials or xxl or the source to tell us about new niggas no more. niggas dont need labels, just enough money to buy an xlr mic, a decent camera, good software, and know how. if you even remotely nice, niggas will notice and bump yo shit. if not niggas aint lettin that shit fly. born in 83 im from that era, but niggas gotta chill with this old man on the porch ass shit. like his last projects was just pushin the envelope or sum shit lol.

Even tho you have a point technically, still so much wrong in this post IMO.

1 thing ppl fail to realize is that most of us are rare breeds. We're music heads who have an appreciation for the culture, music & the progression of. Most out there don't. Most use music as a way to spot trends or what's current & cool. When street rap is hot all of a sudden you'll spot cats acting thug-like, especially if females are attracted to it & that's always how it's been.

Many don't give a fuck as long as bitches like it, it's entertaining & it's popular/cool they good money. Another unfortunate part is that they outweigh us, at least in hip-hop, & they are the consumer target because of that, as well as generally being younger which means more naive. Every business out there are predator-like in their way.

So that crowd needs magazines, radio stations & TV to tell them what's hot in order for them to keep up with the trends so they can fit in with their friends in their school/enviroment. Ppl like you & me only make up a small %.

WTF where are you niggas from? These contracts been around for yeeeeeears. Most of your favorite rapper, singer, rock star been had these contracts. But it's not like they hand it to bitches they fuck after meeting them at the club or a show. Usually it's bitches who they have a "sexual relationship" with for lack of better words.

This is one reason a few chicks writing books don't say certain names and only allude to 'em. Then of course you have niggas who are in business with these chicks writing books and eat off the publics naive-ness.

DMTxCannabis wrote: »

Nigga that's Q-Tip.

What up, Tip? I see you over there sniffing ducks and mustaches.