So dude was good enough to be your baby's daddy, but not enough to your husband? Fascinating. So what kind of fucked up message does that send a child?
not every man wants to be a husband.
So if she isn't good enough to be your wife, what makes this same woman that you're not willing to commit to suddenly enough to not only bear your children, but be the number female influence in their lives. Shit seems like hustling backwards shit to me. I can understand if a man and woman have been in a relationship and have been living together for five or more years, I can understand that because for all intentions they are married, (and some states recognize common law marries,) but all of this random nutbusting in random jumpoffs and "for-the-moment," girlfriends needs to stop. Shit has, is, and will continue to fuck up America.