I used to be like that to the point I wouldn't really wanna go out if I wasn't gonna have a few drinks. Now its not thing for me to go out with some ppl and be sober and still have a good time. For me it had to with social awkwardness which I overcame.
In due time I would say that as far as crafting music, Dilla and Madlib would be eligible for inclusion. Obviously due to their popularity (lack thereof) they would be unlikely to be considered. Some would argue Dr. Dre i'm sure, although I wouldn't due to how much he relied on others throughout his career. I think if we're going for a clearcut pick it'd have to be Jay-Z/Nas/Pac. A lot of folks would put Em up there too but I think that's fuckin ridiculous. Dude crafted his style off too many other cats and failed to really expand upon like Nas did with Rakim. Just my 2 cents.