Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat
I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses
Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child
I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids
I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community
How can you guarantee the role a man will choose to play until the responsibility is put upon him?
You can take an educated gamble but there are no certainties.
But that's the point, shorty ~ Most people don't take "educated" gambles.
Most people want who they have the best time with to also be a great Spouse and/or Parent.
I've spent time with some dope ass women. Smart, funny, sexy, motivated, ext, and the pussy was A1. But never not once did I allow myself to believe that all of those good vibes would translate to being a good Mother, or even a good longterm girlfriend. I'm not even saying that these qualities are mutually exclusive, but they most certainly aren't one in the same.
* Niggas get shytty at femmes because on an enormous scale, women make bad choices with warped criteria. And they keep making those same mistakes, over and over again, year after year, generation after generation.
A good dick ≠ a Good boyfriend ≠ a Good husband ≠ a Good father.
Men seem to know this when it comes to women. We may knock up sluts, but it's never intentional. Never.
But women knowingly procreate with niggas who everyone ( EVERYONE ) else can see is no good.
Why is that, @Kat?