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  • Re: Damn! We Lost Serena To A White Guy

    wonder why her and common didn't work out

    this is an upgrade from drake though
    gnsbootcheese3000
  • Re: Victor Cruz: Racist graffiti found at teammate's home 'reflection' of U.S.' state...

    Will Munny wrote: »
    Copper wrote: »
    Will Munny wrote: »

    Do you know what the electoral college is or did you never have a 9th grade level civics course?

    Yes I know faggit.
    It was a response to your stupid ass " how is Obama president if half the country is racist?" comment...the same way trump is

    So you have no explanation for how Obama got elected if half the country is racist?

    For someone so sensitive, it boggles my mind you'd use a homophobic slur.

    Lol

    gtfo

    being not racist means not harboring prejudices or preconceptions toward people because of the color of their skin. ppl of different backgrounds exhibit this racism in different ways

    simply put, a vote for a political candidate does not absolve someone of, or condemn someone with charge of racism

    that said, trump ran as blatant a campaign of racial demagoguery as i've have seen. and despite that fact a large segment of white americans still voted for him. maybe they all aren't racist but they sure voted for one. defend that
    numbaz...80's babySneakDZA
  • Re: Issa Rae HBO Show 'Insecure' Oct. 9

    FourEfil wrote: »
    Also Lawrence "corrected" the issues that plauged the relationship. He got a retail job only to get his dream job right after. Idk about the bedroom part, but lawrence cleaned up after episode 4 and beyond.


    according to issa he'd been trying to get his shit together for 4 years

    that takes a toll on a relationship

    she could have left, but that is easier said than done after investing so much time and energy into a person

    but lemme stop

    issa is a thot undeserving of forgiveness who didn't deserve Lawrence, right? lol
    deadeye_Goldie_MissKInglewood_BIceBergTaylordasmooth1
  • Re: Issa Rae HBO Show 'Insecure' Oct. 9

    _Goldie_ wrote: »
    Mister B. wrote: »
    Very Smart Brothas article


    Hmmm.....just watch the feelings fly.

    The writer can get the D and that's about it (this is me being nice and not exhibiting feels), but the comment section is pretty interesting. As usual it's divisive, the women are saying outlandish bullshit, niggas are responding with logic (from what I've seen). Typical day on Black Internet...

    Someone called them Ovarian Americans... :joy:

    I gotta use that shyt!!!

    Issa was wrong

    But can we all agree that Lawrence contributed to the breakdown of the relationship


    Meh...unknowingly.

    Remember Issa wasn't communicating the issue she was having wit the relationship to Lawrence. She went to everyone else but the person she's in the relationship wit. So in his eyes, everything was all good. And when he tried to get her to talk about what was going on, she went mute.

    Yea she didn't help the situation at all

    But nobody is gonna be cool with their mate bumming around the crib all day, going from job to job while he or she is out trying to keep the bills up to date

    And I picked up her body language around him first episode she wasn't happy

    I gotta rewatch, but I think he also forgot her bday

    Plus I remember Issa telling Molly he was slacking in the bedroom, they weren't going out a lot

    Again Issa was wrong for what she did....But they deserve each other


    B-day I give you...everything else is on her.

    The one of the main things I took from their situation, is that it starts with communication first & foremost.

    All that assuming the other person will eventually read your mind, hopefully figures out why you're unhappy does nothing.

    That's the burden black women bear tho. Cuz I was on the "issa ain't shit" wave before Daniel for not communicating effectively...but y'all gotta realize she was carrying the load of the relationship financially and emotionally.

    Lawrence was probly feeling emasculated he couldn't even contribute to bills and shit like that, let alone take his girl out for dinner regularly and do nice things for her... and a lil depressed cuz he couldn't get his app off the ground....so how do you, as the support system for this black man, broach the subject of "I need you to do more" without coming off as the nagging angry black woman stereotype on one end, but also knowing that by doing so, you're more than likely just gonna push him deeper into his funk by pointing out where he's fucking up? Cuz if you do that and push him away, that sacrifice you made to hold him down goes away with nothing to show for it. No thanks, no severance package, no card, no pat on the back...I see why she bit her tongue for so long even if to her detriment.

    At the start of the series they were both checked out emotionally. Carrying the relationship while watching your man bum it and sit in his feelings for however long takes a toll on you....and so does trying to do something that just won't work and you can't catch no breaks while you see your woman struggle and bust ass for both of you and you can't help.

    exactly

    no one is trying to give issa a pass or make out Lawrence to be a bad guy

    but I can empathize with her

    she was in a tough spot and she obviously loved him


    That's exactly what yall trying to do and the shit is hilariously sad. If she was feeling that worn down she could've simply broke up with homie. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship , we're always gonna be annoyed by shit our s/o does, there's no excuse to cheat.


    Let that nigga L had cheated first (yea I call him L now) and we (niggas) supported/empathized with the shit by saying " he was obviously so distraught and hurt by Issa for not supporting his dreams and talking down to him all the time, I could empathize with him , it hurt to watch :cry: that's the everyday struggle of the black male " yall wouldn't let that shit fly for a sec lmaooo

    swear yall niggas are incapable of having a nuanced conversation

    we've all come to the conclusion issa's actions were wrong, right?

    but from what we seen, can you honestly say Lawrence was without faults? no....case closed lol

    and I wasn't even mad at dude for getting with Tasha

    deadeyedasmooth1
  • Re: Issa Rae HBO Show 'Insecure' Oct. 9

    Mister B. wrote: »
    Very Smart Brothas article


    Hmmm.....just watch the feelings fly.

    The writer can get the D and that's about it (this is me being nice and not exhibiting feels), but the comment section is pretty interesting. As usual it's divisive, the women are saying outlandish bullshit, niggas are responding with logic (from what I've seen). Typical day on Black Internet...

    Someone called them Ovarian Americans... :joy:

    I gotta use that shyt!!!

    Issa was wrong

    But can we all agree that Lawrence contributed to the breakdown of the relationship


    Meh...unknowingly.

    Remember Issa wasn't communicating the issue she was having wit the relationship to Lawrence. She went to everyone else but the person she's in the relationship wit. So in his eyes, everything was all good. And when he tried to get her to talk about what was going on, she went mute.

    Yea she didn't help the situation at all

    But nobody is gonna be cool with their mate bumming around the crib all day, going from job to job while he or she is out trying to keep the bills up to date

    And I picked up her body language around him first episode she wasn't happy

    I gotta rewatch, but I think he also forgot her bday

    Plus I remember Issa telling Molly he was slacking in the bedroom, they weren't going out a lot

    Again Issa was wrong for what she did....But they deserve each other


    B-day I give you...everything else is on her.

    The one of the main things I took from their situation, is that it starts with communication first & foremost.

    All that assuming the other person will eventually read your mind, hopefully figures out why you're unhappy does nothing.

    That's the burden black women bear tho. Cuz I was on the "issa ain't shit" wave before Daniel for not communicating effectively...but y'all gotta realize she was carrying the load of the relationship financially and emotionally.

    Lawrence was probly feeling emasculated he couldn't even contribute to bills and shit like that, let alone take his girl out for dinner regularly and do nice things for her... and a lil depressed cuz he couldn't get his app off the ground....so how do you, as the support system for this black man, broach the subject of "I need you to do more" without coming off as the nagging angry black woman stereotype on one end, but also knowing that by doing so, you're more than likely just gonna push him deeper into his funk by pointing out where he's fucking up? Cuz if you do that and push him away, that sacrifice you made to hold him down goes away with nothing to show for it. No thanks, no severance package, no card, no pat on the back...I see why she bit her tongue for so long even if to her detriment.

    At the start of the series they were both checked out emotionally. Carrying the relationship while watching your man bum it and sit in his feelings for however long takes a toll on you....and so does trying to do something that just won't work and you can't catch no breaks while you see your woman struggle and bust ass for both of you and you can't help.

    exactly

    no one is trying to give issa a pass or make out Lawrence to be a bad guy

    but I can empathize with her

    she was in a tough spot and she obviously loved him

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