ocelot wrote: »

you know... same story as any other innocent nigga...
Late bloomer didnt know the game... Im a INTJ so i kept to myself.
Work with Pisces chick who everyone wanted but she wanted me.( had or own car and everything)
Became first everything... Later found out I shared the girl.
Pisces girl turned a boy into a man. Became jaded and finally joined the IC( been lurking for a long time)
Got game from IC fam that got burned like myself... thus Ocelot was born...

Oh I forgot... Before joining the military and she kept calling saying how much she loved me and she wanted to be with me...smh

Pisces...smh

yo...

that almost mirrors my story with that fucking sag bitch... Except having my shit together

fuck... that bitch's personality was rubbing off on a nigga, until speculations further developed after

whether or not i shared that girl, but needless to say, whether i did or not... Sag smh...

i hope you niggas realize that even when the economy goes up, there's also a lot more opportunities to get a little business started. We're also in the age of the internet. More niggas are becoming entrepreneurs and everyday their inventing something off the web.

Plus, even in today's world, it's easier to get a bachelors degree with colleges and universities having little transfer programs for anybody who got diplomas and certificates. College has always been a safety net for getting jobs in a secure way, but there's always going to be people who are smarter than people who got book smarts and a degree.

the key word in any situation is "Network"

There's always people who hasn't got an ounce of college experience that has something they've created and has money coming from it, that's just how the world is, it doesn't matter if the next decade gets more tougher. Even though, in the next decade their might be a lot more NEW jobs and careers out there anyways.

okay, i understand that some of y'all tryna be devil's advocate and taking a opposition to the woman in the second situation. Some of you are saying, money isn't everything and just because she has money or just because she's well off it doesn't mean that she can handle relationships like the other woman, because she hasn't been in that situation.
or she's selfish because she doesn't wanna have children.

i get it.

i know if a woman who's financially well off, she has bit of a HARDER time finding a spouse because of the intimidation of those who aren't up to her social status, but in these two situations there's A LOT of things to take into consideration like what if she is happy with all how well she's doing?

now realistically, she's a woman, so women are prone to need emotional substance especially the older they get.
Since this woman hasn't been in a relationship before (which is kinda strange and rare) she must be very independent, and some independent women or anyone for that matter doesn't allow people to depend on them or like depending on others, so to speak. So if she's a woman that is her own boss and makes most of the decision and likes to be control of everything, she might have a problem with role-confusion if she ever gets into a intimate relationship.

LMFAO @ Newport money! might as well say you'll lookin for a snow bunny to fuck with that can you a donut and a snapple.

but, for those who say "Oh, but she's being self-fish or money doesn't bring happiness and blah blah blah" What if she grew up in a home where her parents were struggling? Or she was grown up from a parent that's like the first woman of that scenario? Those are the type of things that motivate people to be as successful as they can be because they didn't have the things that they have growing up, or looking at their moms depending on another man (who isn't the child's father) to provide for her and her kids. She probably would have a jaded view on love and relationships and might wanna accomplish everything on her own in order to feel like she redeem her mother/parents struggling in some sort of metaphorical way.