What if you're a bad communicator, you just ain't gon talk to me? Lol
Ideally, there's something to be said about 2 (or more, whatever) people in a relationship surrendering to each other and working to strengthen weaknesses. Don't just give me what you're great at cuz that doesn't seem authentic.
I started going natural 10 months ago but in the meantime I've worn hella different protective styles (braids and twists short and long)....nobody ever asked to touch my hair, but I have gotten questions like "whooooa I didn't know your hair was that long" smh.