I completely agree with you.
I hate that you have to play little games like that in love, but that doesn't make it any less true.
Love is a game, and sometimes strategy beyond the normal cooking and cleaning is needed to win.
I'm surprised niggaz aren't mentioning parts of Houston more.
Places like Denver Harbor, Trinity Gardens, Hiram Clarke, Acres Homes, the whole South Houston particularly areas in the Southwest.
You will see a nice little gated community and drive down the block and be in the middle of the hood.
The shit is crazy.