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"Comfort" is the enemy. If you're too comfortable, you don't have large enough goals....you're not really going for anything. You're basically just living, but you don't have a life.

Nobody can "make" you anything (sad, happy, discouraged, angry, etc) That's YOUR choice. Don't be a puppet.

Stop paying attention to your opponent and sharpen your own game.

Master SOMETHING. Don't be a jack of all trades and a master of nothing.

Net worth > income/salary

Your vagina shouldn't be the only/most important thing you have to offer a man. Never use it as a bargaining tool, a prize, etc. You're not the only one with one.

If it (whatever) doesn't work, get the lesson, find out where YOU went wrong and move on.

Stop telling people your every move. No one really cares about what you're "about" to do. Blow up behind the scenes, they'll see for themselves.

When giving criticism, always start with what they're doing right, then make a suggestion on how they can improve in their lacking areas, then end with something else they're doing right. Sorta like a criticism sandwich. LOL!

Ladies, make that man feel like a King...like he's on top of the world. Compliment him every day....doesn't matter how small.

If there's any disarray in your home, its YOUR job to fix it.

Don't argue when your emotions are high. You almost always say something that you'll regret later. Calm down (count to 10, take a walk or whatever), then speak your piece (peace)

Master the 6 P's, and you're halfway there (for women in relationships/marriage): Peace in your house, Parenting (learn how to be a great parent...study those you admire), Make him feel like the Pilot (even if he's really not, LOL), P***y on command, always try to be "Pretty" (keep yourself up if you can control it) even if you don't feel like it, and make his Plates. hahaha!!!

According to the IC handbook, all you need is game to get a bad bish to drop her Vickie's, so if you have that, you should be good.

@Kat, she's ALL up in the crevices lmao! You ever had a brazilian. You gotta be almost in doggy position for part of it. The first time I went, the older lady was like "spread those cheeks" THAT was awkward

I liked it. You gotta stand around naked/half naked until it dries tho. Its funny b/c you go down there & its like 10 naked women standing around chatting lol Can't take a shower until 8 hours later. Lasts for about 1, maybe 2 weeks.