And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere
So let me ask you this. If you agree. Do you expect your S/O to cheat.. And if you caught him. What would be your recourse. Or do have a if I don't know it won't hurt me disposition toward cheating? Just curious.
Well I'm not in college.. lol
so it's a little different. But as a general rule, people in college are too young to be trippin off somebody cheating. Thats just my opinion.
But for an old hen like myself, it's one and done. I dont have time to be lowjacking no man or wondering what he on when I'm not around. I don't expect my guy to cheat but I dont nothin past no man. All I do is trust him and observe if his actions are in line with his words. The benefit of the doubt must always be granted and it remains in tact until it's broken. If there are no signs of him cheating, there is no need for me to assume that he is.
How do you feel about having to start all over? Knowing that there is no guarantee that the new guy you run into won't turn around and do the same shit? The other ladies can chime in as well?
The older I get, the less I honestly care. I have come to understand that men often stray. OFTEN. But more importantly, I have learned how women are socialized to respond to those indiscretions. We literally carry it around like baggage. It ooozes out our pores. It just fucks with your mental. Men will never understand how that affects us. So I refuuuuuuuuuuuse to deal with a cheating nigga cause I don't like stressing over men and I like looking 10 years younger than I actually am. I would literally be dating for the rest of my life before I give a cheater all my time and best years. I will switch these niggas up like fitted caps as soon as they get beside themselves.