Okay so this thread probably won't be too popular with the males, but I received a phone call from one of my BFFs with this dilemma so I thought we could get some dialogue going..
So she’s been married for about 6 or 7 years. They have a soon to be 4 year old little girl.
We went to dinner a couple months back and she expressed that the love life was lacking and we spoke on it for a minute.
She calls me today and says that it hasn’t improved. They’ve had sex maybe four times in the past 3 or 4 months (wtf ) and all at her initiation. There have been times she’s tried to initiate sex and he’s basically just blown her off. She’s tried everything from dressing sexier around the house, dieting and exercising, to flat out confronting him on whether he was cheating and making him aware that the shit was beyond getting old. He assured her he isn’t cheating, but still…same old routine.
Her ex that she was with for damn near 10 years before she married her husband has been texting occasionally (you know how dudes do), and happened to text her last Friday and she agreed to meet him for lunch. They met up and she said he was very touchy feely but she kept it together and went home without doing anything sexual.
The thing is what do you do when you’ve tried everything you can try to let your husband know hey I need some attention? You don’t want to cheat, you don’t want to leave him..so what do you do?
I didn’t know what to tell her. I just told her to stay strong..lame.
Let’s speak on it.