Cumulatively? How's an individual on the street supposed to know or care that other dudes are greeting her as well?Individually, save for a couple advances, shorty was simply having compliments thrown at her. But what few here seem to realize is that cumulatively, that shit does get annoying and can easily be perceived as a form of harassment, because it's a relentless, and seemingly endless offering of potentially unwanted attention. And then niggas actually expect her to respond to each and every comment, every time she steps out? Yeah, gtfoh..
Whether "most" femmes egos / self esteem is built on attention is irrelevant. Not all women are cheap attention whores, nor do any and all forms of attention effect them in the ways men generally think they do. Women don't have compliment quotas.
Spoiler:.. are we trying to rearrange the natural order of things? ..
This is a tangent ~ But why is it that niggas always resort to "the natural order of things" whenever their behavior is critically evaluated in any way? I'm not saying anyone should be held responsible for how shorty felt, but on a much grander scale, niggas really need to wake up and realize that societally ( globally ), men have always been allowed to "be men," while women have had to be what men wanted them to be. The "natural order of things" has only ever been what men wanted it to be, because we've always had the power ( physical strength ) to enforce it. It's no coincidence that now that things are changing, there's so much backlash