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I now believe in love at 1st sight SMH


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  • Re: Lil Pump - Gucci Gang ( BIGGEST SONG OUT RIGHT NOW)

    t/s took my comments from the ADHD thread a week ago

    and now made a thread about it :(

  • Re: In All Seriousness, Would You Wife A Chick With Fake Ass, Boobs and Lips?

    nah cuz I know she gon get that booty cancer in the future

    everybody just wait......that epidemic gon be hilarious when we all start hitting our 50s :lol:

    so many females u meet today gon be doing chemo and talking about the regret of filling their bodies full of cement/silicone SMH

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  • Re: Them Massage Joints

    Kat wrote: »
    They don't massage your ass and upper thighs at a legit massage parlor?

    I've never gotten one..I'm sensitive.

    they are supposed to do that at a legitimate spa/massage place if u ask for it

    but don't worry, I'd take care of u :tongue:


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  • Re: Don Q outta here for now

    ether @ that nigga catching a felony charge over a .22 caliber pistol

    that's damn near almost a water gun SMH

    NY got some wack ass gun laws
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  • Re: Some men mistake sexual interest for consent,

    jetlifebih wrote: »
    When i worked corrections ....they had a very important part of the training called “the games inmates play”

    Basically they would put you up on game about the shit inmates do to manipulate officers.....

    There needs to be a class called “the games women play”

    Fuck you mean your interested in fuckin but you don’t want to you fuckin or not?? Your girlfriend requested me on fb was eyeing me the whole fuckin night anyway ...stop playing games....

    This really sounds like some shit chicks used to do right around that age where you stopped listening to your parents when they WASNT there...this issue seems adolescent in nature

    early 20s. had a guy I'd been dealing with invite me over just to watch a movie... no discussion of sex....its like 6 pm...i accept because our first couple of dates was cool and we had chemistry... get to his house. eat. there is no tv in his living room. the only working tv is supposedly in his bedroom. now he tryna get me to drink. wasn't ready to go there with him. I make up an excuse to leave and even then he didn't want to take me home at first

    now I'm thinking had he told me to find a diff way home he prob would have plenty of boys ready to dap him up

    or if I'm down to just hug up and kiss, times you got men who will pressure u to do more after 2, 3 rebuffs

    and based off what other women shared with me it happens a lot...

    that said, i don't even think a lot of men are actively trying to do harm...or rather they aren't consciously aware of how intimidating or grating it can be after a while because obviously y'all are rarely on the receiving end, bigger, etc... and its almost expected behavior and has been tolerated up until usually is chalked up to boys beings boys... to youth...etc

    agree things are kind of getting muddled....but that's why what is consent is a necessary convo though...and getting to a consensus what is acceptable

    the bolded/underlined just indicated u were naive as hell back then

    if a nigga dating u and invite u to his house it's pretty much an assumption that he trying to smash

    did u ask him upfront if he was only inviting u over to maybe fuck? if not, how are u not just as guilty of sending mixed signals?

    the problem is women love being approached the vague way to lessen the transactional nature of most sexual encounters..........usually women who see their pussy as a bargaining chip have a problem with being upfront about sex

    the reason being is they always want to have to opportunity to back out of the responsibility of participating......afterwards if shit doesn't go her way in her mind for whatever reason, the fact that she never explicitly agreed in a firm legal affirmation gives her the opportunity to back out and play victim

    not saying this applies to u @Madame_CJSkywalker , I'm just pointing out that u can't act like dude did something wrong when he was being vague......most women encourage the vague way of initiating sexual encounters

    He had given me reason to believe he wasnt tryna get physical and wanted to take things slow... I had made that clear first date that's want I wanted

    Wasn't the best idea to go to his house still...was tryna give him the benefit of the doubt

    And it wasnt like it was 2, 3 am

    He tried it... I rebuffed


    I agree women play games... There are women who are concerned with coming off as being hoes... Just think we'd all save ourselves the drama though by being direct

    Is the possibility of getting ur dick wet worth things going left?


    wtf shorty this ain't ur 1st day on earth :joy:

    if dude was feelin u then yeah taking that leap was def worth it

    either u was just that attractive, or dude was a scared simp cuz that's the only reason it would make sense for dude to go thru all that