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Ladies Read this article!! "Sex is Cheap: Why young men have the upper hand in bed.."

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  • playmaker88playmaker88 Boy, I tell you that's vision Like Tony Romo when he hitting Witten Posts: 67,818 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    smh.. All I know is my daddy told me this: "You rather be a hoe or you rather be a fool?
    I'd be a hoe any day over giving up free pussy."
    Your daddy is the fool

    That's some real shit.

    No its not, thats some shit your daddy told you...real shit does not equal, shit you kinda almost understand..

    I'm not advocating sleeping with men for money.
    If this aint some rick james shit.

    I'm advocating women not just giving it up because they just like him. No! Men should put in work which includes time and money (relative to their means). I don't care what anyone says; I'm going to continue to believe that whatever comes easy, gets tossed to the side easily too; what a man works for, he's more likely to cherish. I've talked to too many men (brothers, cousins, homeboys, etc) many of which are straight dogs (regular men lol) to believe otherwise.
    You make the man "work" for it by being smart level headed, making sound decisions.. compromising, and to wrap this shit up not being a "hoe"(i really dont feel like typing paragraphs thats the abridged version)

    So ladies, you can let theses dudes on here tell you that you shouldn't put a price on your coochie and how your pussy ain't made of gold etc and end up feeling dumb because you gave it up without getting nothing (materialistically speaking, as well as symbolic-- e.g. commitment or relationship) and he went off and wifed up the chick who he actually had to work for... I'm just saying..

    Listen to this bullshit if you want.. value your "self" over the pussy between your legs, foster relationships and , stay true to your convictions, give a lil , get a lil. Know the dude you are fucking., you can own your sexuality.. without.. "selling" it
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  • ocelotocelot Posts: 10,019 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    smh.. All I know is my daddy told me this: "You rather be a hoe or you rather be a fool? I'd be a hoe any day over giving up free pussy." That's some real shit. I'm not advocating sleeping with men for money. I'm advocating women not just giving it up because they just like him. No! Men should put in work which includes time and money (relative to their means). I don't care what anyone says; I'm going to continue to believe that whatever comes easy, gets tossed to the side easily too; what a man works for, he's more likely to cherish. I've talked to too many men (brothers, cousins, homeboys, etc) many of which are straight dogs (regular men lol) to believe otherwise.

    So ladies, you can let theses dudes on here tell you that you shouldn't put a price on your coochie and how your pussy ain't made of gold etc and end up feeling dumb because you gave it up without getting nothing (materialistically speaking, as well as symbolic-- e.g. commitment or relationship) and he went off and wifed up the chick who he actually had to work for... I'm just saying..

    V
    if youre not a hoe you have nothing to worry about...

    if you are a hoe and you accept it then play these dummys... i would never knock your hustle...

    its a cold world out there and you dont have to be broke in 2011... word to the Allstar Weekend
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  • MsVShantrellMsVShantrell Posts: 155
    edited February 2011
    Listen to this bullshit if you want.. value your "self" over the pussy between your legs, foster relationships and , stay true to your convictions, give a lil , get a lil. Know the dude you are fucking., you can own your sexuality.. without.. "selling" it.

    I definitely agree with "value yourself" but I also believe that valuing yourself includes valuing that thing between your legs. Know that you have a lot to contribute; know that you're a prize; know that he prolly wants coochie even if he respects you for everything else and that he prolly wants coochie even if he don't really care about whatever else is special with you. And with that knowledge understand that one of the key ways that a man feels like he has a woman is by getting sex; one of the key ways that a woman feels like a man has her is by giving up sex.

    Don't get fooled; we've been fooled for way too long... hence the devaluing of sex, relationships, women, etc that we see today..
  • playmaker88playmaker88 Boy, I tell you that's vision Like Tony Romo when he hitting Witten Posts: 67,818 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
  • dwade206dwade206 Posts: 11,547 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    This article isn't written by me (no shameless promotion today). This article is real tho. Showing the perils of giving up free pussy! I been saying this for years!! Women stop giving up free pussy!! Make they asses work. Every female out there fucking a nigga on his terms (which is getting everything from you without putting out damn near nothing) is making it harder on the next female! We need to stop aiding and abetting yall!!!

    Below are a few excepts.. http://www.slate.com/id/2286240/

    "And yet despite the fact that women are holding the sexual purse strings, they aren't asking for much in return these days—the market "price" of sex is currently very low. "

    "The National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health data offer other glimpses into just how low the cost of sex is for young men ages 18 through 23. Take the speed with which these men say their romantic relationships become sexual: 36 per...cent of young men's relationships add sex by the end of the second week of exclusivity; an additional 13 percent do so by the end of the first month. A second indicator of cheap sex is the share of young men's sexual relationships—30 percent—that don't involve romance at all: no wooing, no dates, no nothing. Finally, as my colleagues and I discovered in our interviews, striking numbers of young women are participating in unwanted sex—either particular acts they dislike or more frequent intercourse than they'd prefer or mimicking porn (being in a dating relationship is correlated to greater acceptance of and use of porn among women)."

    "And yet while young men's failures in life are not penalizing them in the bedroom, their sexual success may, ironically, be hindering their drive to achieve in life. Don't forget your Freud: Civilization is built on blocked, redirected, and channeled sexual impulse, because men will work for sex. Today's young men, however, seldom have to."

    Ah would you shut the fuck up. Some of you high & mighty internet broads act like you don't like to have a nice stiff one in you. The pussy you sit on is not worth more than the dick that's beatin it up.




    now go to sleep before I start posting random porno broads
    Bustin a new nut on @R.D's moms collarbone everyday.
  • playmaker88playmaker88 Boy, I tell you that's vision Like Tony Romo when he hitting Witten Posts: 67,818 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    kai_valya wrote: »
    i def agree. what about just loving someone for them and vice versa. people always talking about sex and all these rules, i rarely hear love, real love get mentioned.

    Exactly......
  • Craig RobinsonCraig Robinson Posts: 2,819 ✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011

    Cute girl...shame about your nostrils though....




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  • MICHAEL-V.I.MICHAEL-V.I. Posts: 1,898 ✭✭
    edited February 2011

    This article isn't written by me (no shameless promotion today). This article is real tho. Showing the perils of giving up free pussy! I been saying this for years!! Women stop giving up free pussy!! Make they

    asses work. Every female out there fucking a nigga on his terms (which is getting everything from you without putting out damn near nothing) is making it harder on the next female! We need to stop aiding and

    abetting yall!!!

    Below are a few excepts.. http://www.slate.com/id/2286240/

    "And yet despite the fact that women are holding the sexual purse strings, they aren't asking for much in return these days—the market "price" of sex is currently very low. "

    "The National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health data offer other glimpses into just how low the cost of sex is for young men ages 18 through 23. Take the speed with which these men say their romantic

    relationships become sexual: 36 per...cent of young men's relationships add sex by the end of the second week of exclusivity; an additional 13 percent do so by the end of the first month. A second indicator of

    cheap sex is the share of young men's sexual relationships—30 percent—that don't involve romance at all: no wooing, no dates, no nothing. Finally, as my colleagues and I discovered in our interviews, striking

    numbers of young women are participating in unwanted sex—either particular acts they dislike or more frequent intercourse than they'd prefer or mimicking porn (being in a dating relationship is correlated to

    greater acceptance of and use of porn among women)."

    "And yet while young men's failures in life are not penalizing them in the bedroom, their sexual success may, ironically, be hindering their drive to achieve in life. Don't forget your Freud: Civilization is built on

    blocked, redirected, and channeled sexual impulse, because men will work for sex. Today's young men, however, seldom have to."
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    Shantrell Word?
  • MsVShantrellMsVShantrell Posts: 155
    edited February 2011

    Cute girl...shame about your nostrils though....




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    lmao! hahahahaha.. I've never heard anyone say something bad about my nose. I actually really like my nose :)
  • Craig RobinsonCraig Robinson Posts: 2,819 ✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    lmao! hahahahaha.. I've never heard anyone say something bad about my nose. I actually really like my nose :)

    How old are you?
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  • MICHAEL-V.I.MICHAEL-V.I. Posts: 1,898 ✭✭
    edited February 2011

    lmao! hahahahaha.. I've never heard anyone say something bad about my nose. I actually really like my nose :)

    You gotta Nigga Nose

    You like yo Negro Nose MVS?
  • MsVShantrellMsVShantrell Posts: 155
    edited February 2011
    You gotta Nigga Nose

    You like yo Negro Nose MVS?

    lmao.. it's actually quite the opposite.. One of the first things that make people ask me if I'm mixed is my nose.. go look at my pics..
  • 7figz7figz Still don’t nothing move but the money Posts: 15,241 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    You seriously lost credibility with this shit.

    I usually listen to you on mute (get it?) but I assumed you were spittin' some intelligent shit then I'm like she tellin' bitches ho'in is the way to go ?
  • playmaker88playmaker88 Boy, I tell you that's vision Like Tony Romo when he hitting Witten Posts: 67,818 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
  • bigbadbossup99bigbadbossup99 Posts: 135
    edited February 2011
    This article isn't written by me (no shameless promotion today). This article is real tho. Showing the perils of giving up free pussy! I been saying this for years!! Women stop giving up free pussy!! Make they asses work. Every female out there fucking a nigga on his terms (which is getting everything from you without putting out damn near nothing) is making it harder on the next female! We need to stop aiding and abetting yall!!!

    "And yet while young men's failures in life are not penalizing them in the bedroom, their sexual success may, ironically, be hindering their drive to achieve in life. Don't forget your Freud: Civilization is built on blocked, redirected, and channeled sexual impulse, because men will work for sex. Today's young men, however, seldom have to."
    Very very true. But women will not be emotionally able to utilize the game you blessed them with. However men all over are being taught game and being more receptive to it (we still have suckas out here too). Women aint never coming back into power over men. Women are brilliant,but their emotions will make them lose everytime. A woman will "win" (catch a high quality simp),one that treats her good and is well off. However she'll fukk it up over a nigga that dont do shit but, say the right thing,mute the wrong things, keep himself fly and fuck her real good. A bitch will destroy her whole life over that. (niggaz fukk up too) But most niggas would never show loyalty to a jump off over their bottom bitch. Women do the opposite, very very often.
  • Craig RobinsonCraig Robinson Posts: 2,819 ✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    shanique + latrell = ?

    LaShantrelliqua - La iqua = ?
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  • MsVShantrellMsVShantrell Posts: 155
    edited February 2011
    shanique + latrell = ?

    Chantale + Durrell = Shantrell lol (IDK why yall tryna give me these ghetto ass names.. my name is Victoria Shantrell Asbury; my mama had to give me a lil' flavor but had some damn sense too lol..)
    7FIG said, You seriously lost credibility with this shit.

    I usually listen to you on mute (get it?) but I assumed you were spittin' some intelligent shit then I'm like she tellin' bitches ho'in is the way to go ?

    Not telling females to be hoes; I'm telling them don't give up the coochie to niggas who ain't doing shit except sending text messages and smiling; telling them don't be dumb..
  • playmaker88playmaker88 Boy, I tell you that's vision Like Tony Romo when he hitting Witten Posts: 67,818 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    Chantale + Durrell = Shantrell lol (IDK why yall tryna give me these ghetto ass names.. my name is Victoria Shantrell Asbury; my mama had to give me a lil' flavor but had some damn sense too lol..)



    Not telling females to be hoes; I'm telling them don't give up the coochie to niggas who ain't doing shit except sending text messages and smiling; telling them don't be dumb..

    You could have said that in a more artful way.. instead of that bubble gum.. sister circle wendy wiliams garbage..if you have good intentions dont dumb down your speak.. if thats what your were doing.. (not try to give more credit than you deserve... but if thats what you were doing)
  • 7figz7figz Still don’t nothing move but the money Posts: 15,241 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    Chantale + Durrell = Shantrell lol (IDK why yall tryna give me these ghetto ass names.. my name is Victoria Shantrell Asbury; my mama had to give me a lil' flavor but had some damn sense too lol..)



    Not telling females to be hoes; I'm telling them don't give up the coochie to niggas who ain't doing shit except sending text messages and smiling; telling them don't be dumb..

    When the word "Free" is used, it's 9 times out of 10 associated with money. You have to know that telling a girl that is going to be interpreted as getting money for it.
  • MsVShantrellMsVShantrell Posts: 155
    edited February 2011
    7fIG wrote: »
    When the word "Free" is used, it's 9 times out of 10 associated with money. You have to know that telling a girl that is going to be interpreted as getting money for it.

    I am advocating getting material things (or having men spend money on it). I've said on many occasions, that "putting in work" involves spending time and money. If a man just chilling at her house, don't wanna take you out, and paying for nothing, etc, I don't consider that as putting in adequate work. If he just spending money on it and no time, then that's not putting in work either; that's just buying it.

    When I say don't give it up for free, I mean don't give it to him without him putting in the work as defined above.
  • JadaRossJadaRoss Posts: 6,791 ✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    If you value yourself you wont have to put a "price" on your pussy..

    say it again sir!!!!!!!!!! these females need to get right cause if they want a man to respect her she need to respect herself
  • blakfyahkingblakfyahking The IC's Resident Father Figure Posts: 15,779 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    I actually like t/s's nose:)

    but I think she giving out flawed advice


    it's not wise to try to speak pimp logic as a female cause that part of the game ain't for you

    people need to stop commoditizing themselves in the 1st place, and understand what they offer as individuals
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  • MsVShantrellMsVShantrell Posts: 155
    edited February 2011

    ...people need to stop commoditizing themselves in the 1st place, and understand what they offer as individuals

    That's real; if u watch my video you'll see that I pretty much agree with that to a large extent
  •   Colin$mackabi$h Colin$mackabi$h Smartass Snatch Money ave.Posts: 16,568 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    i think this world would be peaceful if we all have an orgy lol
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  • blakfyahkingblakfyahking The IC's Resident Father Figure Posts: 15,779 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
    (no shameless promotion today)
    That's real; if u watch my video you'll see that I pretty much agree with that to a large extent

    SMH @ you not keeping your word in this thread miss:(

    usually your threads have good topics, but then I click on them and feel like somebody is trying to sell me something

    you should let your posts speaking for themselves.........no need to plug videos as well

    *tips hat*
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