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caddo man
caddo man Failure is success in progress!Members Posts: 22,476 ✭✭✭✭✭
dating Older men?

My lil cousin is being damn near stalked by this older dude at church. He is about 39 and she is 26. Dude has been asking different family members about her to gauge the situation. She is very pretty but on the thick side.

The family knows she will not be cool with it. More because dude is a herb than his age.

So my question is, ladies of the IC, are you willing to date a older man (6 years or older)? And if you are willing to date a older man, what are your parameters? Is it the same as dating a man you age?
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  • deadeye
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  • Kat
    Kat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownMembers Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I've always dated older, save a couple tenderonis..lol.

    I don't see why anybody would be upset by it, it's not as if she's 🤬 .

    My boyfriend now just turned 42 and I just turned 32, so we're nearly 10 years apart, but we got together when I was 29 and to me that makes a difference.

    I take more issue with men in their late 20s/early to late 30s preying on these barely adult females.

    Just cause they turned 18 doesn't mean they don't still have the mind of a child...let em live a little before you swoop in like a vulture.
  • [Deleted User]
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    deadeye wrote: »
    caddo man wrote: »
    dating Older men?

    My lil cousin is being damn near stalked by this older dude at church. He is about 39 and she is 26.


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    Young girl? Stalked? 39 yr old man?

    Something you want to tell us Deadie?
    Its ok dear, your secret is safe with me. Just put it in a spoiler ;)
  • deadeye
    deadeye Walmart Warrior Kat's buttMembers Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2013
    Empress_ wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    caddo man wrote: »
    dating Older men?

    My lil cousin is being damn near stalked by this older dude at church. He is about 39 and she is 26.


    2ns0xa8.jpg

    Young girl? Stalked? 39 yr old man?

    Something you want to tell us Deadie?

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    Its ok dear, your secret is safe with me. Just put it in a spoiler ;)

    @Empress_

    That's why I thought it was funny.

    My initial, shall we say, "contact" with the "object of my affection" started in 2009...when I myself was indeed 39 and she was either 21 or 22. (depending on whether or not she had her birthday yet).

    A few years younger than the lady mentioned in the o/p, and an even greater age difference of 17-18 years...but @sixsicksins can attest to the fact that I don't look 17-18 years older than the mixed young lady from MD.

    Therefore, I see nothing wrong with my "pursuit" of her.

    Now, if I actually looked old enough to be her father, then that would make my infatuation for her somewhat disturbing and questionable.

    However, since I don't, that makes everything ok :-)


  • SixSickSins
    SixSickSins Reading over Tananarive Due's shoulder. Somewhere getting asked about natural hair.Members Posts: 8,134 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Deadie is indeed nice looking as 🤬 .
  • deadeye
    deadeye Walmart Warrior Kat's buttMembers Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Deadie is indeed nice looking as 🤬 .


    Thanx Six



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  • [Deleted User]
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    deadeye wrote: »
    Empress_ wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    caddo man wrote: »
    dating Older men?

    My lil cousin is being damn near stalked by this older dude at church. He is about 39 and she is 26.


    2ns0xa8.jpg

    Young girl? Stalked? 39 yr old man?

    Something you want to tell us Deadie?

    18492.gif
    Its ok dear, your secret is safe with me. Just put it in a spoiler ;)

    @Empress_

    That's why I thought it was funny.

    My initial, shall we say, "contact" with the "object of my affection" started in 2009...when I myself was indeed 39 and she was either 21 or 22. (depending on whether or not she had her birthday yet).

    A few years younger than the lady mentioned in the o/p, and an even greater age difference of 17-18 years...but @sixsicksins can attest to the fact that I don't look 17-18 years older than the mixed young lady from MD.

    Therefore, I see nothing wrong with my "pursuit" of her.

    Now, if I actually looked old enough to be her father, then that would make my infatuation for her somewhat disturbing and questionable.

    However, since I don't, that makes everything ok :-)


    Lol. Marley was messin but thank you for sharing. I personally don't see age differences as being generally right or wrong, its not so black and white unless we are talking about the obvious ie. minors and so forth. It varies as I have seen 20 year olds with the maturity of a 40 year old and I've seen 40 year olds with the mentality of a 14 year old.

    :)
  • Kat
    Kat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownMembers Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If you're so cute then why you hiding your face?

    Scared to be picked out of a lineup?
  • deadeye
    deadeye Walmart Warrior Kat's buttMembers Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2013
    If you're so cute then why you hiding your face?

    Scared to be picked out of a lineup?

    @MzGrahamBitches

    Not hiding anything Kathryn.

    I just don't see any reason to post any pics.

  • caddo man
    caddo man Failure is success in progress! Members Posts: 22,476 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2013
    Depends on the maturity of your cousin. If she's mature enough thats not a bad age gap. She's 26, far from a child.

    How do you fell about dating older men, Skyler?

    And just for disclosure ...............
    I might be your Daddy,LOL!
  • deadeye
    deadeye Walmart Warrior Kat's buttMembers Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2013
    Empress_ wrote: »
    I've seen 40 year olds with the mentality of a 14 year old.

    :)

    Shots fired.


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  • Kat
    Kat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownMembers Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
    deadeye wrote: »
    If you're so cute then why you hiding your face?

    Scared to be picked out of a lineup?

    @MzGrahamBitches

    Not hiding anything Kathryn.

    I just don't see any reason to post any pics.


    But you see a reason for all the ladies to post pics?

    Don't be a scaredy cat all your life.
  • deadeye
    deadeye Walmart Warrior Kat's buttMembers Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
    deadeye wrote: »
    If you're so cute then why you hiding your face?

    Scared to be picked out of a lineup?

    @MzGrahamBitches

    Not hiding anything Kathryn.

    I just don't see any reason to post any pics.


    But you see a reason for all the ladies to post pics?

    Don't be a scaredy cat all your life.


    The only reason why I think all the ladies should post pics is because I want to know what they look like.

    However, it's still up to them whether or not they choose to do so.

    @Empress_ aka Marley...is the perfect example.

  • Ajackson17
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    kai_valya wrote: »
    i was 18 and my husband was 26 when we started dating, so i think age differences can work

    i find older men quite attractive tho, i had (still do) a huge crush on viggo mortenson from lord of the rings

    i like older mens' style, their confidence, their worldliness. and you don't get the feeling your dealing with a kid cuz in my experience, younger guys were pretty immature. and that's not necessarily a negative thing. but seeing as i was looking for a relationship, it wouldn't make much sense to get with someone my age since it was usually the last thing my male peers were looking for

    When I was 18, I was too hopeless romantic and too idealistic and too rigid in some stances. So when I became more fun and spread out a little more and gain some experiences I fallen to that level of immaturity. Now, I'm more stable I see some other sides to a whole relationship, but idk for now would I be good with marriage. I'm in a crossroad right now and it's not about needing more 🤬 or whatever its the freedom and etc.
  • BiblicalAtheist
    BiblicalAtheist Prude FieldsMembers Posts: 15,668 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2013
    I think going past the 10yr mark is creepy. Even siblings that far and further apart have a hard time relating to each other and they're from the same family!
  • deadeye
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    .IRS. wrote: »
    I think going past the 10yr mark is creepy. Even siblings that far and further apart have a hard time relating to each other and they're from the same family!


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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta STFUMembers Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Nothing wrong with it, women tend to look for older men. I know I do.
  • shit happens
    shit happens May da lawd be wit em These hoes lie and these niggas are fakeMembers Posts: 10,739 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Your cousin is well grown I'm sure shes had relations with older men

    Tell her to gone pop dat 🤬 like it's worth somethin
  • Iheart~Cali
    Iheart~Cali Members Posts: 5,991 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I married one 8 years my senior. They're not all up on that 🤬 and trying to knock down everything in a skirt like some younger guys. It's just alot less hassle all around.
  • buttuh_b
    buttuh_b Members Posts: 13,544 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Ain't no love for the young buls in here!?!
  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Bunny Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
    5 years either way is about my limit

    My man and I are the same age
  • dallas' 4 eva
    dallas' 4 eva Dallas Cowboys 2016 NFC EAST CHAMPS Members Posts: 11,216 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I'm only 23 but all my girlfriends have always been older than me. Hell the last two were 29 and 31. Younger females don't be about 🤬 especially here in the D gotta date older.
  • deadeye
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    Nothing wrong with it, women tend to look for older men. I know I do.

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  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Bunny Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
    I was in that movie lol.