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The rising counterculture of being an adult without kids.

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  • Mister B.
    Mister B. Still the Devil's #1 Advocate. Come on out that box! Members, Writer Posts: 16,172 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I think we're done here.

    Noodles pretty much co-signed everything that I and @blackrain said.
  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
    @blackrain


    of course u want your seed to move out (soon). but thats not the point. how about u listen to 🤬 a little more than 2Chainz and maybe i wont seem like such a 🤬 to u.


    i have to talk down to you becuz your thought process is beneath me. Wat youre preaching about it provides poison. I know that sounds preachy (for the mentally ill) but there's nothing wrong with that when u talkin about 🤬 like this.



    I promise you that you WILL be alone one day if u decide to go down the childless route. You arent special, u can be touched just like anybody else. 1 day u can have everything and then literally the next day wake up with nothing

    Preaching "kids aren't for everyone" is poison but you saying "You're destined to be alone if you don't have kids" is godly? That's a new one. Again, nice to know you raising your kids to cut one of their siblings off and disown them if they never have kids. You about to win parent of the year honors with that
  • T. Sanford
    T. Sanford Trill Doggy Dogg (Legion Of Trill) Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 25,291 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Lol @ probably miss your own family

    Wtf, like once you travel the world its a law that you can't see your family anymore.

    Traveling the world is boring IC. So get you a regular job & work slave hours with a supervisor over your head, that's what you call living ICers
  • rooster_cogburn
    rooster_cogburn Members Posts: 794 ✭✭✭✭
    @blackrain


    of course u want your seed to move out (soon). but thats not the point. how about u listen to 🤬 a little more than 2Chainz and maybe i wont seem like such a 🤬 to u.


    i have to talk down to you becuz your thought process is beneath me. Wat youre preaching about it provides poison. I know that sounds preachy (for the mentally ill) but there's nothing wrong with that when u talkin about 🤬 like this.



    I promise you that you WILL be alone one day if u decide to go down the childless route. You arent special, u can be touched just like anybody else. 1 day u can have everything and then literally the next day wake up with nothing



    Yea... I think we done here. Nothing but assumptions, exaggerations, and a bunch of feelings getting caught. Get as many 🤬 pregs as you want....you got life figured the 🤬 out.
  • T. Sanford
    T. Sanford Trill Doggy Dogg (Legion Of Trill) Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 25,291 ✭✭✭✭✭
    blackrain wrote: »
    @blackrain


    of course u want your seed to move out (soon). but thats not the point. how about u listen to 🤬 a little more than 2Chainz and maybe i wont seem like such a 🤬 to u.


    i have to talk down to you becuz your thought process is beneath me. Wat youre preaching about it provides poison. I know that sounds preachy (for the mentally ill) but there's nothing wrong with that when u talkin about 🤬 like this.



    I promise you that you WILL be alone one day if u decide to go down the childless route. You arent special, u can be touched just like anybody else. 1 day u can have everything and then literally the next day wake up with nothing

    Preaching "kids aren't for everyone" is poison but you saying "You're destined to be alone if you don't have kids" is godly? That's a new one. Again, nice to know you raising your kids to cut one of their siblings off and disown them if they never have kids. You about to win parent of the year honors with that

    no i did say "having kids isnt for everyone but not having kids is ungodly". dont put words in my writes trying to make your own point.

    obviously you've ran outta food for thought. i can still go on about this all day. youre never going to make sense trying to convince us that a A Man & Woman are going to have the best quality of life without a seed. Its idiotic




    @T i was just 🤬 wit u bruh. but going nowhere (traveling the world) gets old fast if its just only you and your chick getting wasted. becuz thats wat u mean right? traveling all over the world just to party like a Rap Star right?

    I though you was trolling me lol but anything can get old if you do it enough. But I rather choose that life than to be shackled at a job

    Career>>>>>>Job

    I don't drink nor smoke to get wasted

    Im about that healthy life lol
  • Ajackson17
    Ajackson17 On the shoulders of Giants and Elders in history UniverseMembers Posts: 22,501 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Not having kids is ungodly now? The IC just makes 🤬 up now.
  • rooster_cogburn
    rooster_cogburn Members Posts: 794 ✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2013
    "T. Sanford aint gotta smoke to get high...well i do, so 🤬 him and 🤬 you too."

    naw im 🤬 with you homie... you said something that resonated with me. i salute.

    wrote:
    "T. Sanford;5675344"]Im the youngest of four & the only one that don't have any kids. One of the only amongst my friends who don't have any kids & I seen how they have to adapt to the parent life. One of my home boys be cussing at his kids. Im like "bruh I understand whooping them with a belt but you ain't gotta cuss at a 9 year old".

    I have too many goals to accomplish & too many area codes to explore to even be thinking about crafting a sequel.

    I remember I use to work this job & mostly everybody was on child support. 🤬 use to talk about how many boppers or had bad their boppers was but every pay day child support took 80% of their check. Nowadays it seem like most people use their kids for advertisement "I bought my lil boy them new J's, imma good mom", "My son is Polo down, #ProudMom#", "tru religion on my son everyday #ProudSingleMom#.

    I hate when they say "Single life, don't have anyone for my own so I'll go cuddle with my child".
  • rooster_cogburn
    rooster_cogburn Members Posts: 794 ✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2013
    So, i need a kid to give me a purpose? I need a kid to avoid loneliness? I got fam cuz. I got pIenty nieces/nephews. Even got a lil sis. I dont need a kid to keep me from being a hermit. Im 🤬 the same girl cause i wanna spend the rest of my life with her ya dig. And at this moment in life, we dont want kids. WE JUST DONT

    I know one thing you DONT have figured out....respecting others opinions without resorting to extreme tactics. you been butt-hurt this whole thread. You seem like the 🤬 who would sue Microsoft cause your kid jumped off the porch and broke his leg after playing "Mirror" or "Assassin's Creed".

    Sensationalist ass 🤬 .
  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
    yeah i got that part about life figured out.


    i figured out a long time ago that i can be Got, that NOTHING lasts forever (or is guarantee'd too), and 🤬 the same 🤬 without a reason for progressing past Sex after a while is insane. There's no 🤬 in tha world thats that good.


    Like i said, u could give me all of the money, 🤬 , weed, plane tickets, and spaceship tickets in tha world and i would trade all of that just to drop 1 seed. When youre standing at the top, you realize that its just you and nobody else. Even 🤬 and "Lucifer" had children.

    So you should just stop 🤬 after you and your lady have the amount of kids you want and don't want anymore? Or should one be on a mission to repopulate the earth and make as many babies as possible?
  • Wonder Girl
    Wonder Girl Members Posts: 451 ✭✭✭✭
    I'm the only female in my family over 21 without a kid or three. Every time I see one of my cousins they got a brat on one arm and another in a stroller. That makes me see that lifestyle not for me. I don't wanna be tied down to no one and kids tie you down. I wanna travel, go to school, work all the crazy hours I want and not have to come home because my kid needs me.

    Also, I can't stand people who have kids young and say they happy they had a kid at 18 or something Because they got it out the way.
  • s_a_m_r_i_o
    s_a_m_r_i_o Members Posts: 2,089 ✭✭✭✭✭
    -The problem is that most people with kids don't stay with the partner that created them with them.

    -People without kids mostly would like to have one with somebody who also doesn't have one so they'll be one family and stay together without that step parent/child 🤬 .

    -People who don't want children at all, that's really fine because you are not entitled to. It's a lot of parents who shouldn't be one in the first place.

    -People can be fine with having nieces and nephews or mentoring children. Also all your money is to yourself and you do what you want to do.
  • King_sorrow
    King_sorrow I just wanna picture of pico from the back... Mount CapelymusMembers Posts: 1,070 ✭✭✭✭✭
    -The problem is that most people with kids don't stay with the partner that created them with them.

    -People without kids mostly would like to have one with somebody who also doesn't have one so they'll be one family and stay together without that step parent/child 🤬 .

    -People who don't want children at all, that's really fine because you are not entitled to. It's a lot of parents who shouldn't be one in the first place.

    -People can be fine with having nieces and nephews or mentoring children. Also all your money is to yourself and you do what you want to do.


    everything i was just about to say.
  • JusDre313
    JusDre313 ∩┐(◕_◕)┌∩┐ YEP........................ MEDICINAL!Members Posts: 4,727 ✭✭✭✭✭
    man too each its own thats how i always felt. i got a kid (me n ex split, but we have joint custody). I love my lil dude to death and i had mine semi young i guess (23) but ill admit it.. i never wanted kids.. and people who have kids 🤬 me with that ohhh my kid gave me purpose .. "🤬 /🤬 🤬 shut the 🤬 up with that 🤬 you aint fooling no one"

    Kids damn sure aint for everyone. And i aint mad at NOBODY for not wanting to have them. Kids are a MAJOR life altering responsibility, that damn sure shouldnt be made of a whim. Now i have had times when my kid done made me smile and happy to the point where i was like "wow i never thought being a parent would feel this good" but dont get it twisted it is hard work especially if u (the parents) arent together/ its beef between yall. Been there, but we have a great relationship now

    my point too each its 🤬 own. if u want to have a litter of kids by the time ur 22 🤬 it have it, and have fun raising em. If you dont then thats great too, and people can call it being selfish.. shiiiiieeeettt i call it being REAL and honest with ur self.









    ps: i envy you no kids having 🤬 lol! good 🤬 .. SALUTE (no bause 🤬 slaute tho)
  • edwardnigma
    edwardnigma Members Posts: 3,364 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Well life isnt about everything being good and dandy and skittles falling out of the sky.


    If you was.ever gonna cape for something kids and a family id a good place to start

    Even if you dont have kids, 🤬 mentor somebody!

    Just give back

    I mean 🤬 damn you people hate 🤬 hate kids hate relationships

    And then get mad when somebody says your selfish or you aint 🤬 .

    it is what is,we gon call a 🤬 a 🤬

    I work at a high school, running both the computer labs, AND tutor elementary kids.

    Stop assuming 🤬 .

    You sure dont teach English otherwise youd realise I made a suggestion not an assumption

    And thats good its what I suggested just give back
  • [Trillmatic]
    [Trillmatic] Members Posts: 3,531 ✭✭✭✭✭
    mad feelings in here
  • 2stepz_ahead
    2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denGuests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 32,324 ✭✭✭✭✭
  • LPast
    LPast Members Posts: 4,546 ✭✭✭✭✭
    My point was about the counterculture not knowing what they wanted.
    pralims wrote: »

    Ha, I saw this on the news this morning. Dropped ether on herself and children.
  • zombie
    zombie Members Posts: 13,450 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If you dont want to have kids then it is obvious that you have inferior genes and I dont want you to reproduce.
  • Wild Self
    Wild Self Members Posts: 4,226 ✭✭✭✭✭
    T. Sanford wrote: »
    Lol @ probably miss your own family

    Wtf, like once you travel the world its a law that you can't see your family anymore.

    Traveling the world is boring IC. So get you a regular job & work slave hours with a supervisor over your head, that's what you call living ICers

    hahaha People throw away their lives over 🤬 like that. Crazy how people aspire to make only 50k per year and not do anything else.
  • Wild Self
    Wild Self Members Posts: 4,226 ✭✭✭✭✭
    rockets wrote: »
    I'm the only female in my family over 21 without a kid or three. Every time I see one of my cousins they got a brat on one arm and another in a stroller. That makes me see that lifestyle not for me. I don't wanna be tied down to no one and kids tie you down. I wanna travel, go to school, work all the crazy hours I want and not have to come home because my kid needs me.

    Also, I can't stand people who have kids young and say they happy they had a kid at 18 or something Because they got it out the way.


    I agree. Its funny because you know they are lying. My sis worked with this 37 year old. Grandma of 5!
    After she got finished telling the story about why her oldest, 21 year old son is in prison and her other son just dropped out of high school, she ended it with why she is glad she has raising her children out the way. Mind you the rest of her children are in their late teens and all are already parents themselves. I laughed for 15 minutes. Here an obvious failure of a parent is bragging about raising failures and "getting it out the way." 🤬 didn't even realize it.

    Hood mentality I tell you. This the type of 🤬 @noodles should be worried about. Not forcing people into making more failures.

    that hoodrat 🤬 makes people wanna perform eugenics on them.
  • T. Sanford
    T. Sanford Trill Doggy Dogg (Legion Of Trill) Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 25,291 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2013
    I seen this status the other day on facebook & it gave me the Gary Coleman confused look gif

    "Sitting back thinkn about my future & my kids! Thinking how I want a family wit a man dats MINE & only MINE! How I wana get married one day But until then, im not claiming no 🤬 Not sayn I want mr. Perfect but I would rather be single until I find that someone Until then ian studdn nobody Im focused on me & the two I created! Babydaddy cool but until he fix his situation There is no future wit us Im cooln rite now anyway but ian fina wait on him forever! u can neva claim somebody thats already taken :)"

    So you have 2 baby daddies that you're not currently with but NOW you wanna get married? You need to get the f alllll the wayyyyy outta here with that.
  • Mister B.
    Mister B. Still the Devil's #1 Advocate. Come on out that box! Members, Writer Posts: 16,172 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Bumps.....
  • s_a_m_r_i_o
    s_a_m_r_i_o Members Posts: 2,089 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Don't know if I posted this but people want to get their life together and have kids with someone without them also.
  • So ILL
    So ILL Members Posts: 16,507 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Maybe one day, but I'm just 27, I'm still working on myself.

    But it kills me when people my age say I'm going to be too old to have children in a minute. Like, really? Or that I should be married and settled down right now. Like I'm going to see you being stressed out and looking worn out because you're dealing with your kids and all of that, and not being able to kick it how you really want to because you're married and with kids -- and seeing all of this is going to make me want to jump into that life? Nah, I'm straight, I'll just keep doing me, without a wife or kids.