The lack of common sense and abundance of insecurities is like an infectous disease to any conversation.
If a person comes from greater adversity and survived, then they have a point to call you soft. Whether it be a street dude that survives the life or a suburban nigga that survives the corporate world. You had to be strong in some way that the other isn't due to the different challenges one faces.
But niggas and their egoes want to make this into some other shit. Some people are fortunate, some aint. Count your blessings and move on. That's all it is.
Some country boy could show up right now and prove a street nigga nor a suburban nigga would last in the woods. What argument bout being soft yall gonna have then?
Nothing worst than being around a bunch of yes men. Me and my friends are avid shit talkers, but it all love. No problem being honest, disagreeing, or telling that nigga he's on some bullshit while still being cool.