If a man are still worried about something that happened in college and y'all are 5+ years removed from that actual time, he's got some insecurities he needs to work out. If your wife is everything you want and makes you happy who cares about a stranger's opinion
so u would have no problem with living in a town that was basically your husbands harem?
where every cashier and hairdresser knew your spouse in the biblical way?
and made it obvious?